Life as we know it… sigh!!

Well there I was, in Bangalore, and quite inevitably in a CCD outlet, waiting for a rendezvous with a very close friend. I had been a little early and I had enough time to wonder, what made these coffee outlets so popular in this city? I looked through the menu and my heart sank. Kaapi Nirvana – winner of the silver medal at the Barista coffee championships, coffee for a mere 72 bucks (plus VAT of course)! Some quick math told me that would add up to around 25 cups of coffee in the IISc tea board. That was a little far fetched wasn’t it? Yet I had seen at least 50 CCDs in Bangalore in 2 days and always full of people. I looked around and concluded 65% of the people were there because it looked ‘cool’, 15% came there to score with chicks, 15% because it was convenient to have a chat there, may be 5% because they wanted coffee.

I realized the easiest way to make money would be to start a chain of coffee shops in a big city, give it a “cool” name, get some good demographics, play a little music, charge people in Dollars (that made it look cooler), give names to coffee like kalapila (kalapila in Malayalam means a mixture of noises) n give it a caption like ‘a boisterous blend of exorbitant flavours bound to satiate the coffee connoisseur’ or call it photocoffee – “picture perfect coffee that will leave a lasting image in your mind”, (I don’t know about the mind, but I definitely know it will on your wallet!), Charge them $2 or 3 per coffee… aah I would be rich in no time. To take advantage of man’s need to be cool was so easy. Now I know why Al Pacino, who plays the devil, in “The Devil’s Advocate”, says “vanity is my favourite sin”.

Before the devil could possess me and my vanity, my friend came in and unwrapped a huge bundle of “sorry”s for being late. We ordered cappuccino and mousse au chocolate (oh yes, how could I forget that, some dishes would have Italian and French names, that added to the “cool” factor like nothing else). She told me about how the bus got stuck in a traffic jam and how the girl sitting next to her had told that she studied in “Queen Am’s “college. Upon further enquiry, she got to know that the name of the college was actually “Maharani Lakshmi Ammani College for women” but obviously that name was modified because it wasn’t cool enough. Oh boy I should start the coffee shop right in front of that college!!

It was definitely there, the need to be cool, or may be the appreciation of artificiality. It is a fact, being factitious is in vogue. It was unconscious mostly, but it was there undoubtedly. We have lost our appreciation of nature, of flowers, of rainbows. As The Camerlengo says in “Angels and Demons” ‘our sunsets have been reduced to wavelengths and frequencies’. Take for instance an incident that happened in my lab one day. Thara held up a beaker with the most beautiful looking crystal I had seen. I was awestruck. I went to take a closer look. “It’s beautiful isn’t it? And it’s only water!” I stood looking at it unable to say anything, for true beauty always silenced you. Lokesh, the senior I liked best in the lab because he was very down to earth, and very helpful, came there and said. “It’s an impurity”. I turned to look at him. “Yes” he carried on “Raoult’s law of depression in freezing point. The area around the impurity froze before the water did.” IMPURITY- that’s what it was… not something stupendously beautiful, not a miracle of nature; but an impurity – and that coming from the mildest man in the group.

Let me tell you a couple more examples. My mom had an orchid garden till a while ago. One day she cut out a flawless spike of orchids and placed them in a vase in the living room. A neighbour, who walked in, stared at it in awe and remarked. “It looks so beautiful, tell me really it’s artificial isn’t it?” The last time I went to a park and was looking at a truly beautiful horizon, I heard a kid ask his dad “Daddy doesn’t it look beautiful? It looks like a painting!” Wasn’t it supposed to be the other way round???? Not anymore I guess.

There is a shop right across our house, hardly 10 metres of road separating both. On all my shopping chores I always used to run to and from the shop ever since I was a kid. I do it even now. On my way to the coffee shop that day, in a moment of nostalgia, I had run along the pavement, with my arms outstretched, the breeze blowing in my face. A group of people down the road were staring at me and laughing at the unbelievably dumb thing this 19 year old imbecile was doing. I guess one no longer has that freedom to run like that without being laughed at, except of course if he has scored a goal in a world cup or taken a wicket in a cricket match. Only then you were allowed to be happy, only then you could show it openly. For what is there to be so happy about a simple sunny day? A picture flashed before my eyes, a scene from friends, where Rachel calls Phoebe a cross between Kermit the frog and the six million dollar man because she runs ‘weird’, and is ashamed to go running with her anymore. I think what Phoebe tells Rachel should be a lesson to all of us,

she says “That’s okay Rachel. I’m not judging you; that’s just who you are (uptight). Me. I’m more free y’know? I run like I did when I was a kid, cause that’s the only way it’s fun. Y’know, I mean didn’t you ever run so fast you thought your legs were gonna fall off? Y’know, like when you were like running towards the swings or running away from Satan? (Rachel looks confused) The neighbor’s dog. “


If we sit down and reflect a moment we’ll know it’s true. If we sit down again and think a little more, we’ll find out that we can never do it.

Our order arrived at this point. I was a little frustrated because after two days in IISc, I hadn’t really started working on my project – nanoparticles. But then I saw the plate and smiled… there lying right in front, on my plate was my first encounter with a nanoparticle AKA mousse au chocolate (its only 50 bucks plus VAT mind you)… “Did you know Aarti got a 1510 in GRE? “My friend asked me. “Whoa she must be one helluva gal” I blurted out. I had never really met or talked to her, but I said she must be good, that is how much the system had corrupted me, all of us perhaps. For we were no different than convicts in jail, all of us were mere numbers. Your board exam score in 10th standard was your number for a while. Then it became your rank in the entrance exam, then it was your GPA in college, then your GRE score, and then later your salary – Your number the yardstick for how good you were.

I tried to put forward my preposterous theory to my friend. I asked her why we couldn’t be more relaxed and enjoy simple things in life. I remember quoting W.H. Davies too “what is life if full of care, we have no time to stand and stare? “. She looked at me for a while. “I thought you wanted to make it big in life.” “I do”, I said “Well then leave the philosophy to others. We are already behind the race the way I see it. We use too much of bad English, we are a little too complacent already, when you are some big chap in a big company, you can’t sit slouched like that. Your company will fire you the next instant.” She went on with reasons, earnestly, sincerely, she was trying to help me…for lack of anything better to do I picked up the mousse… nearly… “Dude I prefer eating it with my hand too, but somewhere down the line you’ll have to use a fork and knife, you might as well start now.” She smiled “Leave Howard Roark et all to the books “I picked up my fork and knife. And I smiled. I didn’t know what to make of it all… but I smiled…The mousse may well leave my wallet and my stomach empty, but it gave me food for thought…something to feed my starving blog.


18 Responses to “Life as we know it… sigh!!”

  1. well, this is one long post, that i see from the _number_ of lines, but it doesnt feel long while reading it.
    ccd is one big pseud place…well, im biased here, coz i got thrown out of there once for being there for a _very_ long time.
    as for queen am… it isnt that way coz it sounds ‘cool’, it’s coz the long version is too long to articulate comfortably.
    and i dont agree with what the camerlengo said…. you can use stuff like the one you mentioned so that you can create beautiful stuff you can stare at for hours on end.
    and talking of perfect brings to my mind animating human faces thru computer graphics… there’s always the risk of making something so good that it looks unnatural. it is our imperfections that make us what we are.
    and your running around reminds me of me headbanging and singing in a crowded bus, with the ladies around me giving me looks that said ‘wacko!’.
    roark is fiction. his principles are skewed. you cant remove compromise. there is every risk you’re wrong, and need to be told so.

  2. hmmm… i am sorry abt being repetitive.. but again i feel either there is gap in the flow of thought or the title isnt appropriate for the entire post.. i mean u started off with the need to be cool and continued into the rat race and then ended in being bound by the society to do the right things…

    Also you should probably incorporate more spacing into your writing.. again something which i have mentioned before.. the longer the para.. the faster the person loses interest

    Before i become the critic, paulo coelho talks abt in the Zahir, i probably should also add that this post def made me smile.. like priya rightly said, its one long post which doesnt seem very long…

    p.s: who exactly is this friend of yours.. seems like an interesting person..

  3. Abhilash Ravishankar Says:

    Two months of the ‘philospophy’ breeze at 201 has finally manifested into a long post!

    Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, mate! And yeah, care to rope me in as a partner for that kaapi shop chain??
    [We can make ‘By-Two Kaapi’ an international brand!!]

  4. Abhijit Says:

    Maybe its not life as we know it…rather life as we make it!!!

    Why do we have to make such a big deal about people who have lots of time and money to waste on looking cool?

    Bad english may be kewl!!! But its still bad.

    Maybe we just need to change our perceptions of being smart. A bigmouth is not necessarily the smartest kid in the block. Street-smart…possibly. Smart? Don’t really know.

    Just curious. When was the last time you spoke to the topper of the college without thinking ‘Man!! (s)he’s such a dork!’

  5. Quite a philosophical one..Good piece all in all..I might consider ur idea of coffee shop as alternative career option :)..Btw You didn’t do justice to the title.Its a teenage serial that used to come in Star World and I had this huge celebrity crush on the hero – Dino..How dare u take the same title name?

  6. xtremely_insane Says:

    i hate people who use swear words to look cool!
    excellent topic tony….but i still maintain,a coffee shop is quite a nice hangout place :p

  7. a grt entrepreneur in the making. cool idea. count me in as ur business partner… a nice post in all but cud have split it up.
    …..hey and “tip of the week” ur posts are grt but sometimes a little long to sustain the intrest of the reader

  8. “Oh boy I should start the coffee shop right in front of that college!”
    I still can’t stop laughing Tony.
    Btw to be different ,I mean an Invidual,I guess u needn’t have to be a Roark to dynamite a building.What say?

  9. Anonymous Says:

    Just one question..
    Who was this ‘special’ friend ?

  10. sans pareil Says:

    Judging your own life’s parameters in comparison with others’, really, doesn’t feel the right way of living to me. Some people cannot take a light moment, some aren’t insightful enough to understand your emotions at a given time.

    The fact remains, a beautiful sunset will still appear beautiful to you and the orchids still natural.

    The next time you order the mousse, make sure you make good use of your hands…who knows when a time might come where you’ll begin to swear by the fork and the knife.

  11. in tht case isnt it a little unfair that u judge wat i write based on wat U feel??

  12. Anonymous Says:

    so much over a cuppa coffee…sheesh!!;)

  13. NOTY TONY Says:

    They are not kiddin wen they say a lot can happen over coffee! 😛

  14. Anonymous Says:

    well especially if that cuppa coffee is with a good friend.. then it is def some food oops coffee for thought! rite?

  15. Anonymous Says:

    good friend = is an acronym of? 😉

  16. Queen Am’s College-OMG, i am rolling in laughter. ha, these acronyms!! i don’t buy the long name logic somehow, cuz’ i have heard a lot of folks use Ammani College-but to each her own.

    cool post, reminds me of my days in IISc and Bangalore. aha, those moments in tea board sipping on, umm, well, Cafe’ Latte :)).

  17. read the article all over again for the want of anything else to read .. read the jammag version this time around …. philosphical lovely and more than anything gives ur food for thought
    a previous comment of mine gives u a tip of the week …. IGNORE IT
    guess i was too lazy to read anything then .. this one is real gud
    tht reminds me i asked dad yesterday for one of those 10rs ka “peepee” ( flute) they sell on the marine drive. all i got was a look tht said ” U R 19 years of age”

  18. did i give u all the idealistic crap in the prev comment? it was awesome da.. one helluva post.. u knw wat.. today at pizza hut.. (yea vrishank’s bday, i finally met the gang!) we were discussing abt how our english was so horrid n how srinidhi n i were makin attempts to change tat.. n then turre n sravanti n joy were like wat crap.. if the others have a problem with us using “aa” at the end of question, then its their problem.. somehow making it big in life n bein all “prim n propah” seem to be linked rite.. so much so that u lose urself somewhere in being the person u want the world to see.. almost like peter keating nay?

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